Episode 243

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Published on:

20th Jun 2025

How to Keep Customers Longer feat. Jay 'the private money guy' Conner

In this extensive interview, Jay Conner, a seasoned real estate investor and coach, shares his journey and insights into building a successful coaching business over the past 14 years.

He recounts his entrepreneurial journey starting in 2003 when he and his wife began investing full-time in single-family homes and describes the challenges he faced during the 2008 financial crisis that led to a pivotal transformation in his approach to financing. When he suddenly lost access to a crucial line of credit, Jay discovered the world of private money lending, which opened up new avenues for funding his real estate deals. This discovery not only salvaged his business but allowed it to thrive as he capitalized on the influx of foreclosures in the market.

Transitioning to the coaching space, Jay created educational programs that demystified this concept for potential lenders, allowing him to raise significant capital quickly. The journey into coaching began in earnest after a conversation with fellow real estate expert who encouraged him to leverage his unique skill set in private money fundraising. Following this advice, Jay held his first seminar in 2011, marking the formal launch of his coaching initiatives.

Megan and Jay discuss the significance of having a clear and focused brand. Jay describes how he positioned himself as the “private money guy,” a title that has remained consistent throughout his career. He underscores the necessity of a singular marketing message that resonates with a clearly defined audience. This focus has not only established him as a leading authority in the real estate coaching niche but has also helped in building trust and recognition among potential clients.

Throughout the interview, the value of consistency and authenticity in branding is highlighted. The dialogue concludes with both Jay and Megan encouraging aspiring coaches to focus on one primary result they can provide to clients, rather than attempting to blend multiple expertise areas into a single offering. Jay reiterates how vital it is to lean into one’s authentic self when engaging with audiences and creating marketing content.

HIGHLIGHTS:

2:37 Jay's Real Estate Journey

6:05 Discovering Private Money

9:10 Transition to Coaching

11:08 Creating Effective Courses

13:22 Advice for Aspiring Coaches

16:03 The Importance of a Clear Message

18:44 Staying Authentic in Business

23:00 The Power of Masterminds

26:53 Overview of Offer Suite

32:08 Building Trust with Clients

36:28 The Client Journey Explained

41:20 Secrets to Long-Lasting Success

connect with Jay:

Website | Get Jay's book, Where to Get the Money Now


Megan Huber’s Socials & Resources:

LinkedIn  |  Instagram  |  Facebook  |  Book a Call |  Consulting

Structured Freedom Inc | Client Acquisition For High Ticket Coaches

The Coaches Pathway to $500K | Guide and 10-part video mini-course

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About the Podcast

Built to Last
Honest Conversations About Marriage, Motherhood and Business
Ever wanted to hear how powerful women leaders are building their legacy businesses while also balancing marriage and motherhood all done in a fulfilling, joyful, and sustainable way? That’s exactly what Megan and her guests will do. Life can be overwhelming and the day-to-day roles and responsibilities can leave you wondering if you’ve got what it takes to build your dreams.
Tune in each week to learn from Megan Huber, a former high school teacher and Director of Programs for an international coaching company turned business growth consultant and leadership mentor for women entrepreneurs building world-changing empires.
In each episode, Megan will give you the permission, motivation, and tips & tools to step into the role of CEO of your legacy business while also navigating life as a happy wife and Mom.
She’ll also be interviewing powerful women leaders and entrepreneurs to give listeners an inside scoop into what it really looks like to build a business while living a life truly aligned with your family and overall life values.